when I talk to girls online I'm very witty, quick on my feet (or tongue) and can crack some pretty good jokes with a bit of flirting thrown in.
but in person I can't even do half of that
is there any way that I can change how I am in person to how I am online?
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I don't think so. Some people can be really funny on the spot, others need more time (which you have online). In the end it doesn't matter, if you have a good sense of humor and can be charming, it will work its way into the relationship. You'll just have to get past the initial flirting stage somehow, when it's all about instant charm and wit.
Maybe try online dating? If you can charm a girl online, she will already be interested when you first meet. You won't need to impress her as much compared to if she were a stranger.0