I have a friend who continues to sleep with guys, THEN date them, and then get to know them. She also ALWAYS gets cheated on or dumped. I kept telling her she's going about it backwards but I guess she thinks she knows better than me. So my question is for you guys, if you sleep with a girl on the first date, do you honestly lose interest right after? Does it click in your head that gee, this girl moved fast, I'm not sure if she's relationship material?
Personally I've told her not to do that. I myself get to know the guy and then purposely make them wait 3-4 weeks. *lol* Only because I found guys have ALOT more respect for me and our relationship. The ones that actually like me stick around and the ones that don't, eh they get lost and I could care less. I've actually never slept with anyone on the first date so umm yah but what do you boys think?
And ladies, if you've slept with a guy on the first date, did it ever work out for you? Did a good relationship ever come from it? what's your take?
AND NO I DON"T MEAN A "BUDDY" OR FWB. (friends with benefits) I simply mean a guy/girl that you liked and had an official date with!
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Usually, a fast woman is good with the sex. But in the long run, the relationships die out regardless of who is at fault. I like sex on the first date, but only if the date was successful. What I dislike is dating that gets nowhere after 3 to 4 weeks. Then again, I usually don`t have dates last long enough to worry about sex anyway! Hahaha. Depending on the mood I am in, I expect sex on the first date. This mood however is rapidly decreasing as I am getting old, gray bearded and slightly wrinkly! Hahaha.
If a woman has sex with me on the first date, she better inform me of her long term intentions: sex-fling, serious relationship, one-night stand or otherwise I will become attached to her. Why? As an unlucky man born short and black on a world that pays to be neither, I am happy for any date that succeeds one way or the other as it does not happen often. Escorts don't count, I PAY for them!0