So, I just finished freshman year off by meeting this girl. We met like, two months earlier at a weekly group thing, and I went every week basically just cause I knew she'd be there. I eventually friended her on FB, and asked her if she'd do lunch with me. We set it up, and went to lunch.
It was my first girl-experience, so I was pretty nervous, and I don't think I really brought my a-game, but I managed. I don't know whether this was a 'real date' or not. It turns out, she was headed home for the summer the next day, so I couldn't really set up another get-together (she lives about two hours away).
So, I sent her a text a couple days later that didn't really require a response, but I was hoping would tell me if she was actually interested in me. Here I am about four days later, so a response never came. I don't think that's a fantastic sign.
So, the question is, do I send more messages, or call her or something, or do I wait until I see her in the fall at the U? We'll be living in the same dorm, and we'll be going to that weekly club again, so I'd probably see her at least a fair deal in the fall. I'd love to start seeing her this summer, cause I don't think a two hour drive is a big deal, but I don't want to spoil my chances, or appear desperate.
She's amazing, so I don't want to learn from my mistakes on this , if possible. I'd much rather not make them. Anyhow, thanks for reading, lemme know if you have questions that might clarify things, and I'll edit.
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This is kind of a tough call, I think; On the one hand, you don't want to be pushing too hard, especially as you're not seeing each other in person, but on the other, you don't want her to forget about you. Although, in reality, I think her seeing you when school begins again could be soon enough, and if she has really noticed you in the times you've been together, then when she sees you again, she will remember you. I think it would be okay to leave it until the fall, when you can really see her, talk to her, communicate with her possibly more easily in a closer environment, and also gauge her feelings towards you through reactions, body language, and such.0