Met a man online, we've talked almost every day for the past month or so...give or take a few days here and there. We've been on two dates and he's definitely expressed an interest in more dates. This past Friday, he had to cancel our 3rd date last minute because of an emergency with childcare (which is fine - kids come first, as they should). he called me later that night when the kids were asleep and the convo went well. Haven't heard a peep from him since. It's Tuesday. This is the longest we've gone in the very short time we've been talking...Do I call him? or Text him to just say hi and let him know I'd like to chat? Or is the ball in his court? I do not want to play games, but admittedly, I have a hard time putting myself out there...so I get caught up in my own thoughts. Given that he cancelled, I guess I'm hesitant to call/text as I feel if he was interested and wanted to make up that date, he'd reach out. Advice?
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call him...be nice find out what has been going on in his life. He might just be really busy or stressed out. If all seems clear...then remind he still owes you a make up date. If he evades or doesn't make an effort after a while longer (say 2 week limit) then move on...he probably already has. My personal experience with online dating is...the person you are talking to is probably talking to at least 2-5 other people on a semi serious basis. People are there to play the field so remember you competing for his attention as much as he has to compete for yours.0