What does it mean that he trembles when we kiss?

When we are making out, I've noticed his body trembles and he sometimes will breathe heavily. I know I definitely notice his body shaking a little like when he's holding me.. it happened once when he was like leaning over me and I thought maybe he was shaking cause he was holding himself up, but then he was trembling another time when we were both just standing making out.. Is it just because he was horny? Like do guys tremble when they're really turned on? Or does it have to do with feelings? Like does a guy tremble if any girl kissed him? Like he wouldn't tremble if he wasn't attracted right? He's definitely not inexperienced and we've hung out a few times now and every time he still like trembles. Just, what does it mean?
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  • hahahahaha. the dude is hella nervous or scared and he's tryin WAY too hard. be easy on him. let him know its OK to slow down. poor dude haha

  • He's scared sh**less...take it easy on the poor boy...

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  • I apologize if my comment is too long or seems like a lot to read... but it's impossible to convey anything of real importance using just a couple sentences. If you truly want to understand what REAL love and devotion means, it's worth spending a few minutes reading this.
    The reason I'm answering this question is because I know exactly why he (your boyfriend, I assume) was trembling when he is holding you, kissing you, making out, etc... I know this from direct experience, and no, it's NOT because he is frightened, nervous, or just becaue he was turned on. I can almost 100% guarantee that he has VERY strong feelings for you... as in, he is most definitely very much in love with you... and finding love and passion THAT strong is quite rare. True passion and love is something that most people will sadly never experience. It's really difficult to put into words, but I'll do my best.
    To put it simply, he is literally experiencing a love for you that is so intoxicating and wonderful that it literally makes him weak, and he is longing to be with you forever. Have you ever heard the phrases "She takes my breath away.." or "My heart skipped a beat when she... " These phrases aren't just meaningless expressions... They ARE literal. I've experienced love and affection so strong and real that it LITERALLY made it difficult to breathe. So, imagine what it would be like to have all of your dreams come true all at once, and to have all of your fears, sadness, worries, and cares about everything else completely disappear. Some people cry when they are so happy that they can't believe that something SO wonderful is happening to them. You never want that moment to end... ever. When you have those feelings of total love and affection for someone, like your boyfriend or girlfriend, you could literally stay in that moment for the rest of your life... That's' when you KNOW that you have found something very, very rare... It is an undeniable, perfect love and desire, and it makes everything else in life seem totally meaningless. You just want to live in that moment forever, and since you know that isn't actually possible, you can't focus on anything else... your entire heart, mind, soul, and body is in a state of ecstasy, and the thought of having to let go makes you want to hold on forever. That's why people get "love sick"... it's not only emotional, it's also physical and it affects the chemistry of your brain. It's like an addiction that you can't get enough of. It's pure happiness and ecstasy... it's heaven. Feelings THAT strong have a very real affect on your body, and it causes you to literally lose physical strength and tremble, as if you're scared, or like you're going to pass out. I know this because it has happened to me, and I remember the feeling like it was yesterday. NOTHING in life can ever come close to that level of love and passion.
    I'm far from young now. I'm 41 years old, and I will never forget what it was like to hold, love, kiss, cuddle, and just be close to the girl who has always been the love of my life. I can't explain how it's possible to love someone SO much that it consumes your every thought. I was so in love and emotionally attached to her that I rarely had an appetite, so I didn't eat very often. When we were apart, I couldn't think of anything but her, and I remember laying in bed at night crying, wishing she was lying next to me. That was over 23 years ago.
    We were together for a total of three years before I asked her to marry me. I proposed to her on top of a mountain at a resort in Colorado. When I asked her, SHE SAID YES!!! Both of us held each other and cried because we were so happy. Thinking about it even today makes tears come to my eyes. We were SO happy together, and I had no doubt that we would be together forever...
    My precious fiancee, my future wife... she died two months before our wedding. I will love her, and miss her until the day I die. I hope you find true love. It's everything.