HI, I am a 41 year old attractive female who had because about 7 years ago and doing well. The problem is that I had radical surgery with implants. I look great considering, just a little different that the others. Dating is tough, usually when I disclose this information, rejection sometimes follows. I want to believe that not all men will be turned off by this. Any advice?
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I don't know how you're meeting guys but I'd suggest you try the online route if you haven't. okcupid.com is a great site that's completely free. I met my wife there.
In your profile you can include that you are a breast cancer survivor (congratulations, by the way) and if a guy can't live with your restored breasts, he should move on to someone else. However, if he is more into the connection and can accept good but different, you'd like to get to know him better.
I'd put this near the end of your profile as sort of a by the way comment. I did something like this in my profile. I was married for 27 years the first time to a BBW and can't deal with big gals so I just said I don't find large women attractive for me. It worked great.0