Is this bad? I'm 21 and never kissed a girl?

Just wanna know what you girls think about it. Just check out my profile to see what I look like lol. I think I could get a kiss if I want haha. Its just I don't know if I'm waiting for the right girl.

Which one best describes what you think about my situation.

  • Its fine, shows you care about your first kiss
    44% (15)46% (16)45% (31)Vote
  • Its weird, just kiss a girl already
    18% (6)26% (9)22% (15)Vote
  • Its good, a kiss is something that should be with someone you love
    24% (8)23% (8)23% (16)Vote
  • Its a turn on
    3% (1)0% (0)1% (1)Vote
  • Its a turn off
    11% (4)5% (2)9% (6)Vote
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Most Helpful Girl

  • Not bad, maybe a little weird, but then again I didn't kiss anyone until I was 20/21, and I have a cousin who didn't kiss her man until their wedding day, so not a bad thing, just all based on you. I actually think it's kind of cool that you're waiting, though if I were dating you and we didn't kiss(like I made a move and you turned away) I know it'd almost be kind of hurtful, but if it's something you two discussed and agreed upon, then I'm sure it'd be fine and I think it would be a turn on because it shows you're firm in your beliefs, which is amazing because she wouldn't be getting a watered down man who can't stick to his guns. :) Good luck in finding that lucky girl.

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What Girls Said 7

  • I think you are waiting for the right girl and I think that's a good thing. With so many guys in this world expecting and having sex as if its nothing its refreshing to know there are still some guys out there who know that even kissing should be something you share with that special some one. If you meet girls who have problems with this or think its weird, they clearly aren't your type and you don't need to worry about them or about what they think. =)

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  • Having not kissed anyone isn't a problem. The real power comes from knowing you COULD get a kiss if you wanted one ;)

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  • Without knowing anything else about you, I find it a turn off. Not that there's anything wrong with it, but I would wonder why no one else had wanted to kiss you yet. Is there something wrong that I don't know about you?

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    • no, I mean you can see on my profile what I look like, I'm 6'5 athletic, I'm just waiting for a special girl

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    • Nope, I would honestly be freaked out if a guy told me that at my age. I might lie and say it was sweet or something. But I don't want to feel like I'm perfect in your eyes, not only does that put me under a lot of pressure to live up to expectations, but it also makes you seem whipped.

    • well, I see what your saying, but would you rather me not tell you then when we get to that point where we should kiss and we dont. Because then you would wonder why I'm not kissing you and it may make you think that I don't like u. By the way I was the one who gave you a +1 :)

  • This is going to sound crazy, but I'm waiting for the right guy too. There will be no better kiss but with the one who's meant for me. None of the others would hold a candle to his kiss :)

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  • That's awesome! It's really sweet to wait for a special girl. I wish more guys were like you :)

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  • You've have never been kissed really... Well I just looked at you pictures and I don't see why that is, do you just not want to kiss them or what cause your not bad looking just saying :)

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    • :) thanks, and I just want to kiss a girl who I'm in a relationship with, not just a girl I date, I'm saving it for a special girl that means a lot to me. So, since I've never had a relationship, hence no kiss lol, and I'm sure too that I could get a kiss if I wanted :P

    • yeah well its not a bad thing I think it really cute, and I mean if I met a guy that had never kissed a girl and he wanted me to be the first one I would feel good about myself so yeah I think its fine... and yeah I bet if you wanted to have been by now you would have :)

  • its just finee...im 21 and I never kissed also, but I'm always wait for the right one, because I care about myself, my body, and my emotions...

    so about your case, I saw in your profile that you mentioned that you are a Christian so I think it relates to your religious commitment too which is a positive point to me. it show you don't like to play with other people emotions and also care about yourself... so don't worryy... there is nothing wrong or weird about it. even its valuable that you can control yourself while you are still so younge :)

    and I just hope you can find the right one who deserves your decency :)

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What Guys Said 2

  • all the people will tell you are not but... truth to be told it is weird as must people get their first kiss when they are 12, it also shows that you have waaay too many f***ing expectations for girl's ( I mean is just a f***ing kiss you are not getting married!) and two it says that you don't have the skills to turn a girl on a girl, how f***ing hard is to get a kiss? NOT HARD AT ALL! You can say whatever you want, but yes it is weird, that is the cold hard truth.

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    • thanks for the truth lol, its not that I couldn't get a kiss lol, its just id rather it mean something

  • Theres nothing wrong with it at all...

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