My ex broke up with me almost 5 months ago and he has a new gf. We have had no contact. They have only known each other for less than 2 months. Both of them have moved REALLY fast in their relationship.
As for me, I have just started dating someone I really like. I am almost completely over my ex because I have had a few months to myself.
I have heard through a mutual friend that my ex's best friend says that the new girlfriend acts like me. Physically though, we look nothing alike. His best friend also says, she is not good looking at all. Keep in mind those are not my words! His best friend told him what he thought of her. My ex responded by saying "she has strong features". A few people I have spoken to keep telling me they don't find her attractive. She may have a great personality though, I don't know.
My ex recently tried to add me to facebook, I accepted, but then I deleted him again because there were a whole bunch of pics of the two of them.
Apparently he gets angrier more easily now. What could this all mean? I have to ask because I am curious, but could this girl be a rebound?
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You keep pointing back to how his Girlfriend isn't that attractive as if to put a sign on yourself that say's he is missing out on you because you look better. Obviously just by having pics of him and his Girlfriend he is very happy. Whether she is a rebound or she is the one that's meant to be you shouldn't care. If you really like this guy you are dating why can't you be happy? If you were completely wait *almost* over him why are you trying to dissect every aspect of his current relationship?
Your ex may want to reach out and be friends with you. You stated that. And by you deleting him simply because he has pics of his new Girlfriend alongside him shows you haven't completely moved on or healed yet. To him it shows immaturity on your part. The best way to be happy is enjoy what you currently have once you do that you will heal. As far as them moving fast does it really matter? My Brother did the same thing and rushed head on as did his Girlfriend so yes, it could be a rebound for him and her but let them be. If they tire of each other or get married whatever.
Best thing is to live for the present. Figuring out what things mean now isn't going to bring you and your ex back together.2