Ugh that's the one thing I don't want to be is clingy. I just started texting my crush this week and I just want to talk to him all the time which I know is unrealistic lol. I'm just wondering by the way lol :)
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Nope. If my girlfriend doesn't text me during the day I end up texting her - we usually we're either at work and can't call or just don't want to use the minutes sitting on the phone. Since we have the unlimited texts, we use 'em.
it really depends on the people involved, though. My girlfriend doesn't text me random, boring crap or super clingy messages like "who are you with" "what are you doing" and all that blah blah blah, we usually have interesting stuff to talk about.
There's another girl who came out and said she was romantically interested in me before I started dating my GF, and she always texts the same crap (even now!). The conversation usually goes something like:
Me: Not much, just at work, what's up with you?
Her: Was you doin 2day?
Me: I have church group until late.
Her: IC I'm board
Me: That sucks
Her: I was going 2 c if you wana hang out 2day?
Me: I don't get out until late
(30 minutes later)
Me: Still at work
(1 hour later)
Her: Sup was you doin?
Me: ...still at work :-/ what are you up to?
Her: ic wana hang out 2day?
Like, literally verbatim that's one of our "conversations". She never says anything meaningful or even cares how I'm doing or what I'm talking about, she basically just wants to hang out so she isn't "board". That's lame and clingy. Also, no leetspeak. Ever. We don't like that. Ew. Bad. Wrong.
Also, since we're on the subject of texting - NO SIGNATURES. This girl has a signature that says "<3 xXhernameXx" that shows up after EVERY TEXT. So damn annoying. Quit that, ladies.0