I've been trying to get to know this guy I like through instant messaging. He's shy but will stay up really late talking to me, so I feel like there's mutual interest, but yesterday we were at the same event and he didn't talk to me, though the day before he said we would hang out. After the event he said he wanted to spend time with me, invited me to get a snack, and then took back his invitation. I can't tell if he's nervous or not interested, and it's driving me crazy. Shy guys, do you have any advice?
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If he is as shy as you say he is then he is definitely interested in you. Since he is shy he probably has no exprience hanging out with a girl expecially one he likes so he doesn't want to be awkward by you. I think it would help if you would be a little more pushy and tell if things like it sure would have been nice if we hung out at so and so's when we were there together. Or if you have a mutual friend go hang out somewhere with friends until he is more comfortable by you.0