I'm kind, caring, confident, empathetic, passionate, intelligent, I always listen to everything girls say and respond with my thoughts and feelings, I attempt to be funny some of the time, I can have fun, I smile a lot, I mean, like, I've read and heard about the thing's women like, but is there some x-factor that I am not aware of?
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From you, I get the feel feeling that you genuinely respect women a lot.
Respect for women is the path to the dark side.
You almost have to go about pursuing women from a selfish and objective standpoint.
You have to go about it as if you're trying to get what you want from them, and in that process, you'll be more comprehensive about building attraction because you're looking at it as a personal pursuit, as opposed to a mutual thing.
They benefit from the fact that a guy that they're attracted to is paying attention to them. You benefit in obvious ways. But the primary intended benefactor of your actions must be you.
Also, maybe an edgier look would help.4
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