This might sound like a dumb question, but I feel like I need some opinions anyway.
I want to text this guy I'm sort of seeing. Our last convo ended with a text from him. I fell asleep so I didn't respond. The next day, I didn't really think his text really needed a response so I didn't respond. It was not a question or anything. This was over a week ago and we have not talked since.
I don't want him to think I am ignoring him and I also don't want him to think I'm desperate. I want to make plans with him soon because I'd like to see him before I go on Vacation.
Do you think it's my turn to text? Guys: Are you happy when the girl initiates contact?
I hate these texting/calling games and I think my hesitation makes me seem cold and uninterested- and that's not the case!
Opinions please? Thanks.
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Text him as much as he texts you. If he texts a lot, text a lot. If not, do so less frequently.
This is a simple rule I maintain to ensure equality and mutual respect. If a girl wants to play mind games and never returns my texts/calls, I move on.
There's 7 billion people or so in this world and most of them will never see 5 minutes of my time. I have to be fair to these people, but most importantly, fair to myself.2