I've had guy friends that assume I wouldn't date them, but they didn't even bother to ask. Why wouldn't you bother to ask?
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Are you meaning after they were already guy friends, they never asked? Because I wouldn't either. If I'm her friend, it sort of seems like I'm out of the running for her since I'm seen as a friend. Plus it would be awkward if I asked and she told me she didn't feel the same way. It could split us apart, so I'd rather keep her friendship than to risk screwing it up.
If you're meaning guys coming around but falling into the friend category over time, then it could be a lot of things. They could lack the gumption to ask you, they could feel like you're "too good for them", if you talk to a lot of guys they might feel like they can't compete/you're already taken by one of them/wouldn't consider them over all the others, you could seem unavailable or unapproachable, you could seem uninterested or just friendly towards them (nothing else). It could be a lot of things like that.0