How can I get a guy to like me and not my body? I'm either friends with a ton of guys or guys just want to hook up. None of them want an actual relationship. It's really frustrating... So how can I get out of the friend category and into the potential girlfriend one without them just wanting to hook up
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Any guy who would eventually want a relationship with you will always be sexually attracted to you from the start. Physical attraction is key to getting to the first date. Once you get to the first date, you need to let the guy know either then or on the next date, that you don't believe in sex outside of a relationship. Say it casually and then stick with it. If a guy is really interested in you he will continue to date you and get to know you on a personal level and when he is ready he will ask you to be his girlfriend. If all a guy can see in you is a hookup, he will either pressure you for sex, make fun of you waiting until you are in a relationship or he will stop asking you out. Oh, and he probably won't even try to ask you out for regular dates to begin with.
So, the point is that you cannot get a guy to change how he sees you, you can only weed out the guys who just want casual sex.2