How do you kiss with tongue?

[Anonymous]

I can't kiss. At all. It's always messy and stupid and what the eff.

TEACH ME. STEP BY STEP. please? =)

[Phoenix52]

I don't think you need to learn anything about kissing. It's just all about feelings.

If I don't know a girl well enough yet, I'll give her a nice smooch. However, if I'm really into her, and we're alone, I'm going to use passion in my kisses. Which involves kissing both her upper and lower lips, cupping her face so I can kiss and lick her neck. And going to her shoulders and then coming back to her lips again and inserting my tongue into her mouth to wrestle with her tongue, gently.

That's my technique. Since it takes a while, I'll take a break and LET HER GO AT ME. So if it was your turn, you can do what you want. Kiss my cheeks, use your tongue, kiss my eyes, whatever you like. Nibble/suck my ear. It depends on how deep you want to go.

[kaviraaj]

hey babe don't get directly into tongue

firstly use your lips

plant a gentle kiss on lips then try to suck the lips

mainly the lower lip

then make him to suck your lip

then use the tongue

lick the lips with your tongue

then suck his tongue ask him to do so

then lick his tongue

its gives the pleasure

and I am sure you will enjoy this

[Asker]

best one yet! thanks so much! <3

[kaviraaj]

i can add more to this honey

[Asker]

yay please do! give me as much detail as possibe. usualy when I FIRST kiss a guy it's a mess because both of us are doing different things.

[kaviraaj]

let me know what do you know?

[Asker]

Nothing. I open my mouth slightly, stick my tongue out to swirl wiht their tongue but it's a disaster happening. Either I DON'T feel their tongue,I feel as if my mouth is too far open or too tight?, the guy would shove their tongue into my mouth (a lot of it) and I don't know if it's me or them, etc etc. I usually start off with tap. I want a cute kiss where I use my tongue and lips and everything. Is it okay to tell the guy "hey follow what I do?" would that be rude. idk. ahh! I know nothing hahaha

[kaviraaj]

if you want to enjoy a lot then be gentle first

start with gentle smooch enjoy everything

be smooching for sometime

let him lick your lips

bite his lower lip he will also do that

then use your tongue

first lick his lips then suck his tongue lick it

let saliva enter your mouth

lock your lips and play with your tongues for sometime

[Asker]

ahhh thank you so much! I keep re-reading this over and over again. To practice, to I place my two fingers together and pretend they're lips? I can't wait to try this out with a guy! =)

[kaviraaj]

hope I would be there to try with you

you would have learn it easily dear

[Sapphires4Life]

Heh, you just gave me a sense nostalgia from my early dating years. :') Okay, lemme see...

When you START to kiss, don't use your tongue right away, try to play coy until the guy does it first. When when you feel his tongue inside your mouth, at first, LIGHTLY stick your tongue into his mouth, in soft flicking motions. As you two get more and more aggressive in the kissing, feel free to let a little loose.

When, and only when you have become comfortable with the ways of the french kiss, young grasshopper, try this trick: If you can, try lightly sucking on his tongue if he dives into your mouth. The guys I've tried that with went nuts whenever I did that. XD Apparently it's a little kinky to them.

[Camilus]

Don't use more than 1/2 inch of tongue

Flick the tip of their tongue with your tongue

Use lips just as much as tongue

Be playful

Ta-da

[zombiefood]

Great answer! The only thing I have to add- if you want to initiate it, or just drive your partner wild then part your lips a little bit and just flick your tongue over his (or her) bottom lip, just a little. I know my boyfriend goes crazy over that. Just remember, don't part your lips too much,just relax, let him (or her) guide you to how wide your mouth should be. Keep your lips lightly against his and match his... mouth opening width thing...

[diamond3]

its a natural thing really..