Why won't she text me back?
This girl is obviously flirting with me, a girl I'm friends with seen how she acts around me and said she was flirting. She is always teasing me more than others, massive smile including her eyes when she sees me, before leaving for summer she gave me a long hug pulling me in and had her hands low with no patting, wants to always be physically close, acts nervous around me fiddling with things and blushed when saying she missed me, with school over we have been keeping in touch over Facebook the things she posts are flirty and lot of inside jokes only I would get.
Now the confusing part, 98% of the time when I text her she won't text back. That's always been a sign of her not liking you, so I thought she maybe a flirt but she only acts like above with me. Her close guy friend complains she ignores his texts too. I know she seen the texts always on her phone and doesn't seem to have trouble texting back her girlfriends, not sure about other guys besides the one mentioned. If I posted the same message on Facebook I know she would respond Asap. I'm also fairly certain that she has unlimited texting too. So I don't understand why it is so hard to text me back, so I would appreciate any light shed on it.
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well I don't know why she would do this, it all depends on the kind of person she is but I'm thinking either:
A.) she isn't texting you back because she wants to play with your head
B.) she does really like you and wants to see how much of an effort you are going to try to put into talking to her
C.) she's blowing you off maybe cause she's talking to someone else?
but regaurdless of the reason I think onee day you should just call her and ask her why she is always blowing off your texts. DO NOT text her and ask her lol.
also, maybe she's tired of waiting for you to make a move so she's trying to not be into you so much
you need to step up your game mister!
What Girls Said 6
Sounds like she's manipulative, and if she's manipulating you then trust me. she does NOT like you. Not trying to be mean, just being honest. I'm a girl, and have lost of girlfriends. and this is exactly what we all do when we are manipulating a guy. She makes it seem like she likes you, then ignores you, so you'll think about her and go crazy. Lots of girls do it just for fun, and all the stuff you posted about her flirting with you, girls know how to fake it and make it seem extremely real. And if she has time to text her girlfriends but she won't text you, she's not interested. Just stop texting her and find another girl, one that will actually care for you. She's not worth your time, and there are many other wonderful girls out there that are genuine. Good luck!
i just think she dosen't text back because she isn't all that into you. if you like someone you don't ignore them that is simple.. she may flirt with you but her other actions show she isn't that interested
it sounds like she knows how to attract guys. she's just making you wonder why she isn't texting back so you think about her. on Facebook she writes you back so that she doesn't look bad and so other guys see it and think she always writes them back quickly. she's just socially talented it sounds like.
you could try
writing to her on Facebook only, maybe even only on her wall,
calling her...wow I know
ignoring her texts back.
arranging things in person.
just don't let her treat you this way. just tell her you want her to text back promptly and that you see her text her friends all the time...just tell her you like her company so youd love to get her texts...so you can talk
on the other hand maybe your texts or monotanous or boring or she just doesn't really see a reason why to respond to your texts...i mean what sort of things are you saying to her through text? she probably texts her gfs about boys which is interesting...is she just texting you about the weather?
maybe you should just ask her out and then ignore her texts for a bit after the first date lmao
What Guys Said 7
I happen to take her as an "attention-whore"... some girls are like that... and trust me if some one likes a person... the last thing they would do is to ignore that person on sms.
They (attention-whores) would try to attract people towards them and if a particular someone is attracted towards em they tell dr frnz dt ds particular guy drools over her and stuff... I mean you get the picture... the first thing I would have done if I was you ... I wd hv tried to enquired what she tells her female frnz abt u... trust me they are the people who know everything :p I hope am wrong about it...but dude you gotta try and confirm for your own sake .. :)
Since she's a flirty girl, just be a flirty guy. Don't take her seriously, because this girl clearly doesn't take any guys seriously. Play her game and beat her at it.
Infact, I'd call her out on being an attention-wh0re. Just using males for validation, and getting those poor guys to chase her and inflate her ego.
So, then again, don't play her game. Be a more valuable guy and invite her to hang out. Let her come into your orbit. She'll find you more interesting, and start chasing you.
Dude! just forget bout her , don't text her .. don't do anything online either , if she likes she'd come for you ~ the key is to ignore em so they know you don give a sh*t , in that case if they really want you they come to you , I promise ;) meanwhile go meet new women and get their number so if she didn't wanna get to you , ull have backups lol . gl ;)
she is just playing hard to get