I swear it's annoying. I've met tons of girls who are ecstatic and like, "Oh yeah I totally wanna hang out" and then you contact them and they're like "Oh I'm busy" or something like that. Why can't these girls just say they aren't interested?
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Some girls are lying, but for me it's because I'm a) busy and b)really nervous. It happens to me all the time where a guy says he wants to hang out and I say "yeah definitely!" But it takes me a couple times of them asking before I comply. However, I do want to hang out. I currently have a guy that I'm very attracted to who has been bugging me for over a week to hang out. I honestly am busy, but a lot of it is nervousness too. I'm no amateur to the dating scene but I always get nervous with someone new. So usually after a couple times of them asking I get comfortable enough and it all goes well lol.1