I once read in an interesting article that men and women break up with each other for different reasons. The article stipulated that women break up with men for only a few reasons: security, not feel safe, protected, loved, pretty much emotional reasons, although these are generic reasons, and there are exceptions, of which probably are umbrella reasons from the aforementioned, but interestingly enough, that same article also stipulated, that men break up with women for 50 other reasons: ranging from sex, another woman, to a bunion on her pinkie toe. That actually surprised me as outlandish? So men, is this true, and If so, why? What's going on, and what advice, if any, would you like to share with us ladies? Is it sometimes you and not the woman? Also, for the good men out there, what advice would you have to offer to your brethren, that would benefit the good women out here who intend on dating them? Thanks, and as usual, all audiences are welcomed. :)
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I am divided upon what turns me off. However, being that I am a bit of a shy guy, I have not expressed it unless confronted with the situation. Nevertheless, My turnoffs are as follows:
Side 1: Lack of respect, Loud, Arrogant, Usage of improper grammar, Bad hygene, Lack of reasoning capacity, Unambitious tendancies, Low self esteem, laziness (I work out, and would be damned if she does not work out as well), greed, no sense of candor (must be honest, even if it is thought honesty may hurt my feelings), and General qualities that equates to poor education.
Side 2: Large boobs (Frankly for aesthetical reasons), Large buttockss (Likewise, unattractive to me), Her waist being more than 85% the size of mine (I have a 32 inch waist, and for a woman to have a waist more than 27 inches is unattractive to me), Taller than me (I am short... LOL I am 5'5"... Taller woman would be awkward... I tried that.), Bushy pubes (honestly, I don't require she be saven or waxed, but 70's p*rno look is unsatisfactory... At least trim the damn thing, LOL), Fake hair, Wigs, Fake nails, fake eyelashes, And finally being overweight.
I know, I have quite a list, but due to my experiences, I can say without a doubt what is a turn off for me.
I dated a taller woman and it was awkward. I have no type of erectile dysfunction, but when propositioned by a woman that was larger than me, I remained flacid. Large boobs are just not attractive to me. And most of the things that are on side 1 are just intolerable.0