There is a girl that I like and she knows that I like her because I have made it very clear. She has shown signs that she likes me too. She also calls me sweetie, honey, boo, and my love. The problem is that she is constantly flirting and hinting that she wants to see me but she is hesitant and flaky when it comes to dating. Perfect example is one time when she agreed to go out and I texted her saying "Can't wait too see you" and she replied saying " Me neither ;)" and when the day came she gave an excuse and couldn't make it. We have been talking for almost 3 months and have not dated once. She knows that I like her, if she doesn't like me back why would she keep acting this way instead of just telling me? Does she actually like me but something is holding her back? I do not this this situation. I don't understand her.
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it sounds to me that she's playing you like a game. One thing about these flirty girls is that they LOVE attention, they will say are call you anything just for you to like them, and when you eventually do like them they'll only tease you.
She's teasing you for sure. That last excuse is total bullsh*t, lol. alarms don't erase texts. Even if the alarm does cancel out texts, there should still be a notification that they have a text. so honestly, she just wants to tease you. ALOT.
I'd say to not text her as much, and don't ask her out because all she'll do is come up with non sense excuses to say no. I'd still talk to her and be super friendly and flirtacious, but never take her words seriously.
when she calls you honey, cutie, etc, call her "pretty face, beautiful, gorgeous, etc" and see what she does.0