I have been talking with this girl for maybe a week through e-mail. I ended up giving her my number and she gave me hers. I waited a couple days and then texted her. But it was kinda quick because I had to go to work. Then I called when I had time at work and she didn't answer. Then after work I texted saying I was sorry for ending the conversation so soon. She responded saying it was cool. It seems like I am putting all the effort into it and basically I am chasing her, which I don't like doing. I just can't figure out what to do.should I call in a couple days? Or wait for her but I know she won't initiate so I'll just be waiting and thinking about it like I am now.lol.
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I agree with all the people who have posted so far, but here's a thought.maybe there was someone over her shoulder watching who she didn't want to see anything TOO personal that she might say.maybe a snoopy girlfriend or her parents. I know I have been in that situation before and had a bit of awkward explaining to do afterward!
Don't give up! If she is interested, that will totally pop her balloon and she probably won't risk making a fool of herself going after you again after that. Keep doing what you're doing, maybe try asking more specific questions if you're sick of the "it's cool" and "yeah" responses. works 99% of the time.
Try a variety of methods of communication because they're not all equally good for one person. For example, I feel weird talking on the phone (mostly because somebody at my house is ALWAYS listening) but I love chatting on AIM. Could be that she just "doesn't like to text." So try other stuff too; facebook, AIM, phone, w/e. Find what SHE likes and is most comfortable with.
GOOD LUCK! I hope this was helpful.0