Choose the single most important one from the poll that matters to you.
- High Income1% (2)5% (4)2% (6)Vote
- Good Looks2% (3)8% (7)4% (10)Vote
- Personality86% (159)76% (65)83% (224)Vote
- Confidence8% (15)7% (6)8% (21)Vote
- Sexual Experience3% (6)4% (4)3% (10)Vote
I wanted to see if all this talk of girls saying they want confidence above all else in a guy was true.
Most Helpful Girl
Honestly, good looks are the hook. We're all human and it's human nature to be initially attracted to somebody you find aesthetically pleasing, because at first glance, what else do you have to go off of that draws you in?
PERSONALITY wins, but...
Confidence is the line. You want a guy who is confident or at least fakes it. My boyfriend is gorgeous, unfortunately everybody else thinks so too, but he has such low self esteem and is so insecure about himself. But you would never know. He's extremely friendly, outgoing, intelligent, charming, and what I love is he always has something to say. I tease him and I love when he teases me back and challenges me with witty banter. All that is confidence to an extent, even if he doesn't actually think highly of himself.
Personality is definitely the sinker though. But not just a good personality in the sense that he's a nice guy who has good traits. I want him to have chemistry with me, and to have things in common. My boyfriend and I had this amazing spark from the start - because there are a lot of nice, good-looking guys out there, but not many that have as much in common with me as him. We think so alike, have the same outlook on life, ideas and opinions, and that is what I look for. I do not believe opposites attract.2