I've been into this guy for about 2 years. I stopped talking to him for about 7 months. I needed to try and get over him. I recently saw him online, so I started to talk to him again. He made plans with me multiple times and he flaked on me every single time. I don't get it. I don't understand why he keeps bullsh*tting me. He claims he "forgot", but really wants to see me. Should I keep pursuing him or leave him be?
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MY friend does this with a girl he knows. He likes hanging out with her, but when they do hang out she starts acting weird, as though they are a couple on a date, and he has no attraction what so ever to her. After a while it just became a habit to call her, make plans, and then not show, because he could, and he was making a fool out of her. He felt bad about it eventually because he knew it was wrong, and then asked me to help him sort himself out. So I told him to send a no nonsense text about how he was using her as an ego boost because of her behavior toward him, and that he liked her as a friend and hang out as friends, but that he would never want to be in a relationship with her. He never heard from her for many months until, saw her online, she said hello, he thought she understood, so he asked her to hang out, and she immediately told him 'he had to try harder to get with her". So he stopped talking to her. I suggest you just forget this dude. He has no interest in you at all.0
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