I'm pissed beyond words. this kid stood me up after pursuing me! we met a year ago and were good friends. he had girlfriend on and off for five months (same girl) up until three months ago when they officially broke up. we actually stopped talking at one point before that break up because I developed feelings for him (I just told him I was busy with personal family issues, so he didn't know). regardless, we were always flirty, but nothing serious. he used to tell me how great I was. post-break up we talked all the time and he told me he wanted to see me when he came into town, treat me to something "nice" because he missed seeing me. we talked until Tuesday, when we finalized plans for Friday (today). he said "I'll call you to pick you up around 7" because he doesn't know how to get to my place.
never called. never texted me back when I asked if he was OK. I called and it just kept ringing. I text his friend and he says he WAS JUST TALKING TO HIM ON THE PHONE! I can't believe this sh*t.
i want to text him and curse him out because I'm pissed and confused. why make plans and then IGNORE/ditch me?
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You have every right to be upset but that doesn't justify you calling him out and cussing. In fact it's down right childish. You're an adult. It's not as if he stood you up for your wedding and reasons are actually necessary. Besides if you do that you might just turn him off you and I don't think you'll want that seeing as you like him. If you be the bigger person like I'm sure you can be and not let this faze you then it shows that he has no control over you and your emotions and you come out smelling like roses well he smells like the guy that cleans parc disposals all day0