I am friends with a guy at work I finally confessed that I liked and was interested in hanging out with him. He told me he has not had good luck with dating at work and if I worked at any other place, he would not hesitate. Since then, we have hung out in groups and he seems interested but its not clear. What should I do? I have liked him for 4 years and even have dreams about him?
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I don't know, it sounds to me like he turned you down gently. I guess I wouldn't say give up on him, but definitely don't get your hopes up. I think you oughtta keep your options open and date other guys and if it turns out in the end that he does actually want to go out then just go out with him one day and see what he's really like.
So don't completley give up on him, but don't keep focussing on him and try out other guys. There's a term we have among us guys, but it can certainly apply to girls to: Oneitus. That's where you close all opportunites for dating other opportunites and are madly infatuated with the one guy/girl. It'll drive you mad doing that, trust me.0