are you bothered if a new guy your dating is seeing other women at the same time?
Reading responses, I should clarify - yes I mean if you aren't exclusive obviously. Some people I talk to have very different opinions and say date as many girls as you want if you aren't exclusive yet and assume she is doing the same.
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i'd only see one at a time. him seeing other girls would bother me even if we weren't exclusive just because I'd feel like it would be a competitive thing and I think that a guy who can't see that I'm worth all of his attention (in that respect he has to have hobbies and friends obviously) isn't really good enough for me.
mmm... I think maybe the first few dates might not necessarily mean much and you aren't generally assumed to be seeing the person exclusively yet. once it is clear that it is exclusive or a relationship then I think that should be over...
i have never and WILL never date more that one girl at a time. I think people that do this simply can't stand to be alone, and want to make sure they cover all chances of them not being able to have a relationship with someone.
I may go on multiple first dates in a short period of time. But if I decide that I like a girl enough to go on a second date, I cancel any dates with other girls (assuming the girl agrees to a second date).