My friend has two guys that are in love with her. One who she sees all the time and one who lives a couple hours away who she sees every 2-3 months. Currently, she is in a relationship with the guy who lives a couple hours away, and at the same time has strong feelings for the guy she sees all the time. She has begun to want to step things up with the guy she sees every day and has strong feelings for. She doesn't know what to do because she is stuck between these two guys and she has feelings for both. Tomorrow she is going to the movies with the guy she sees everyday and knows she has the feeling to do things with him yet won't because it would be a betrayal. However, this is all just a smaller question compared to what should she do about the guys. Should she stay with the one she is in a relationship with but only sees every 2-3 months, or should she go with the guy who she sees everyday and has feelings for?
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There's no 'right' answer here. Why does she maintain the relationship with the guy she sees only every 2 or 3 months? Is it because of her feelings for him, or is it because of a work relationship, or what is it that ties her to him? Normally if someone has feeelings for a person close by, they will end the occasional relationship without looking back unless.
Something really special is going on with the person far away.
So ask her first of all why she continues to have such loyalty to someone who doesn't take the trouble to see her very oftern. I mean, a couple of hours, wouldn't normally they see each other at least once a month if not more, if their feelings were mutual and strong? T
hat doesn't sound like a healthy relationship, unless, as I said, there are some really special circumstances. It sounds more like the guy is married or has another girl that keeps him busy, frankly. Although that's only a guess of course.
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