I met this amazing girl at a church sponsored dance and we really liked spending time together. We had a good time the entire day doing various activities and learning more about each other. Over the past weeks we began talking on the phone everyday for hours. I really felt I met someone I could trust and openly share my life. We went on a date this past weekend. It was uneventful and low key. There was no kissing, but we spent lots of time talking and getting to know one another. But after the date she reduced communication and later told me she wasn't ready for a relationship. The message was clear and I now feel hollow and sad. I don't know what I did wrong. I try to be the best person out there and one date is enough for a girl to call it quits. Any body else have some experience with this?
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I've been the girl on the other end of this, and in all honesty you didn't do anything wrong this girl just obviously isn't into you as more then friends. What I'm guessing has happened to this girl is that she wanted to be friends you asked her on the date she though "I mean he is such a good guy so I'll go to see what it's like" on the date she realized just how much you were into her and how little she was into you and felt awful about it, freaked out and just stopped talking to you. I doubt she was actually scared to date you she was more likely to be scared to hurt you.0