Girl hanging out with guy friend late?

[adamw5963]

I'm dating this for about 2 months. She told me tonight she is going to hang out with her best guy friend at his house til about 4.am. Those were her words. She has told me before about him and that there's not an attraction but I can tell he is normal looking if not good looking guy. By the way he has no girlfriend. Should I be worried because she doesn't stay out that late with me.

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Should I say something to her because I don't want to seem jealous or smother her but obviously I'm jealous. I just don't see what the desire would be to go hang out for that late with a friend would be. Oh yeah there is gonna be another girl there that lives next door.

[tiffanyLUVR]

I think it's fine especially if she told you that she would be there so late, and it must be annoying to only get one word texts back but whenever I was with a guy and I was with my group of guys friends without him, I would sometimes not text back at all just because I want to enjoy time with my friends and I didn't really like that they wouldn't trust me or couldn't go hang out with his friends or something...

[adamw5963]

i know what you mean. I guess the only thing that is driving me crazy is what they could possibly do at his house til that late since they are just friends. I just want to send her something sweet but I don't want to sound clingy or something and just make it worse. I don't know if I should just not text her anything and just wait til she texts me tomorrow or what

[tiffanyLUVR]

wait till she texts you or you see each other

and what they can be doing... talking or eating or something? Thsats what I do with my guy friends... :) its different than 2 girls being friends or 2 guys being friends, I'm guessing, but in a good way. I don't know why but I always liked most of my guy friends better; you need both but for me I would rather have most of my guy friends than the girls

[adamw5963]

yeah that's what she says about guy friends. I think that's just one difference between guys and girls. should I tell her goodnight?

[tiffanyLUVR]

I think it's fine. It depends on how much you trust her because I have more and better guy friends than girls and I know that most of them I wouldn't want to do anything with because they are like brothers to me so it depends how close they are and in what way (:

[adamw5963]

i trust her mostly haha...i don't trust guys..i know how they can be and I don't know many guys who wants a girl to come over and hang out that late if he didn't have something in mind

[tiffanyLUVR]

well like with my guy friends I've slept over in the same bed a few times and they never tried anything, but I think it would be weird for them too because we've been friends for a while

[adamw5963]

i get what your saying..3 questions..should I say something to her? and if I should what should I say? would you be mad if the guy you were dating did the same thing to you? I wasn't being a smartass I was jw your opinion.

[tiffanyLUVR]

if you say ask her why she's there and what theyre doing she would probably get mad, ik I would, but maybe you can ask to talk to her and just tell her you can't stop her from doing anything but that you really like her and struff like that... just don't say you don't want her going there because I would dump the guy if he told m not to go to my friends house : /

and I might be mad if they just became friends, but if theyve been friends for a really long time, then I would have to trust him or dump him

[adamw5963]

thats what I was thinking I would just tell her how much I liked her...this just sucks...planned on telling her how much I liked her this weekend when we went on a picnic...i hate to do it now but I really want to tell her now

[tiffanyLUVR]

do you feel that they did something together? and why wouldn't she want to stay so late with you?

[adamw5963]

she did once and it was because we fell asleep together.i have no clue.she said she would not do something with him like that..but the thing is I have no idea if he even knows about me.whenever she is with him she will not text back and if she does its one word answers or just a smiley face...ive been out with her and her girlfriend and they have talked about him before and it didn't seem like anything would happen...she at least told me she was staying out til around 4.am...idk what to think..

[adamw5963]

also she is with him now..so how do I tell her I like her a lot or what do I say because I'm not even sure if she will text me back?

[tiffanyLUVR]

just wait until the next time you two are alone so you can tell her in person, its annoying and frustrating when my phone goes off and I'm with friends

an if she's telling you that she's with them then its most likely that nothing serious is going on

[adamw5963]

ok I think I may tell her goodnight I'm not sure..i think its just one of those things I won't understand haha.

[tiffanyLUVR]

yea I wouldn't mind that its sweet just dw bout it, talk to her in person or ask her to talk if she texts u

[adamw5963]

how should I tell her goodnight because usually one of us just falls asleep texting.