I hear a lot of people saying that many "hot" girls are not worth it. It's a lot of maintenance, vanity, and many "hot" girls don't have great personalities, they are shallow.
I'm just curious if any of you have had experience dating a "hot" girl, or know someone who has. And would you rather date a girl that is not as good looking (still attractive though) but with a great personality?
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A lot of these guys are just bitter and want to justify their reason for either leaving an attractive girl or being dumped by one. Some of them aren't however, and saying that a lot of them are incredibly vain, high maintenance, etc. is a huge generalisation.
I have never been called shallow, or been told that my personality in unpleasant. Not everyone likes me obviously, but I don't think I'm horrible to spend time with.
I guess my boyfriend feels a lot of pressure to make sure I don't leave him, even though I wouldn't *just* leave him, and definitely not for someone else. He gets jealous very easily, but I guess it's because his ex-girlfriend cheated on him with one of his friends...and that must be absolutely awful to bare. I don't even know how anyone could behave so vile. People like that are disgusting.
Regardless, he gets angry if another man openly looks at my assets, or acts flirtatious towards me. Like cashiers in shops, etc. He seems to feel pressured to buy me gifts, especially jewellery, even if I tell him it's not important, like Valentine's day. [which I do hate]
Sex is another thing where he feels the pressure to be have to satisfy me every time.
So yeah, it could make you quiet stressed in the long run. Though I have to add that it's completely optional and unnecessary in my opinion.2