we're long distance and to keep things short ill get to the point.
some girl wrote on his wall on fb saying, "hope you had a great 4th hun. sorry I missed your call :("
and I'm just wondering whyother girls are calling him hun... right away thiinking does he call them "pet names?" and then I'm also wondering... why is he even calling other girls... and if he is because theyre old friends.. why won't he just tell me? because in my opinion I shouldn't have to ask, right?
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I think you're most likely being a tad too paranoid here...
As for other girls calling him hun, that's just how some (actually quite a lot) of women talk. They address anyone they're friendly with as hun. It's probably as simple as that, don't read to much into something so trivial. Hun has become more of a friendly greeting than a pet name. You've probably called some of your friends hun in the past, right? I know I have...
And about calling other girls... What do you mean by "why won't he just tell me." If you asked him about the message and he lied to you about calling her I can understand you being upset about that, I would be too. But you can't expect him to tell you every single thing he does automatically... Do you list off everybody you've called throughout the day to him? I doubt it... And if you are, that's really unnecessary! He's his own person with his own life and his own friends. And it's perfectly normal for him to call them. He doesn't need to tell you about every little thing he does, just like you don't either! However, if you ask him about it, he shouldn't try to lie or hide it from you either.
If you're feeling a little insecure about it, ask him who she is. If he's calm and open about it then I'm sure you have nothing to worry about. But if he gets defensive and tries to dodge the conversation, then I'd be worried!0