It was both of their first serious relationship but they continue to be in each others' lives. They both went to the same university as planned but broke up.
It's been over a year and she still hangs out with him. She'll go over to his house and they'll drink, watch movies, hang out. She's over there right now and he has a girlfriend. They act like a couple flirting, touching, and who knows what else.
It's not healthy, emotionally, for either of them. Especially my sister because this guy is a royal douche and doesn't have a pair to fight for what he wants.
So can anyone tell me if they were in this situation what they did. Thankssss.
P.S. If you're reading this, hi Alana, stop creeping my GAG.
I've spoken my peace to her and she said she's going to be very cautious and think everything through. I have a feeling she'll go back to him though. :/
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My dear, you can 'attempt' to set her straight by advising her of what she is turning a blind eye to but it will fall upon deaf ears. You see, she needs to come to this conclusion independently and make a conscious choice to 'move on.' Yes, we both know she will end up hurt and letdown in the process. But, sometimes this needs to happen so the person gets a dose of reality and doesn't repeat the same mistakes again the future. Therefore, your next course of action is to stock up on the tissues and make yourself available when she needs a strong source of support.2