Guys: how can a girl be more than a fling to a guy she likes?
Most Helpful Guy
Here are my thoughts regarding your question.
the best way to find someone is by starting as friends first
because it break the ice and make each partner act normally...
if you are compatable both of you may starts developing feelings to each other
naturally you will have sex but this time not as a fling but as a "making love" which is the term I prefer
and if you are making love by the above process I think you will have a relationship nd not just a fling
Good lluck and have fun