Are guys into the girl taking the initiative and kissing them first, or do they like to be the ones to make the move. I know I like the guy to make the move, but sometimes they take so loooooong to get around to it that I just get fed up and take things into my own hands...
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I work both ways, but prefer it if the guy makes the move -- this is usually because I am quite forward in other respects... asking for a number, setting up a date, initiating contact so I feel like if I do all the leg work to get us to that moment he damn well better step up to the plate and kiss me because I don't want a relationship with someone who is needy where I do all the work. Been there done that, not a fan. So I guess it's very important to me if he makes the move if I've only taken initiative so far, but if he has taken initiative prior to the kiss I don't mind who kisses who first. Sort of a test really.
Case in point a couple dates down the road a guy and I were cuddling on my bed after talking for hours and walking around campus until 4am the date before that because neither one of us wanted to leave. Despite the attraction I felt for him if he hadn't kissed me that night I would have assumed he wasn't attracted to me sexually.0