I want to date this girl. I asked her out before, but she had a boyfriend at the time. I recently found out that she is single again. I want to ask her out, but I don't have her phone number. I just know where she lives. I was thinking of going to her house and asking her on a date. Do you think that's a bad idea?
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If we were neighbors, if the guy had been over at my house frequently in the past, or if I'd given him a standing invitation to come visit me, then I'd think it would be appropriate. If not, I think it would seem at best kind of weird and at worst pretty stalker-y.
Someone's house is supposed to be a private place. I would be uncomfortable with someone I had no or tenuous connections to coming up to my front door to ask me out, especially if I didn't actually want to date him. If I were you, I'd seek her out in public (i.e. show up at the same coffee shop she frequents) or Facebook her or something like that.0