How many times during a date do guys imagine hooking up with the girl they're on a date with?
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Well, honestly, sexual thoughts come naturally to anyone who is in a relationship, regardless of sex. But, it's how the guy reacts to those thoughts that matter.
Some guys think about it non-stop and some, myself included, less so. I'm more engaged in the conversation and focusing on the non-verbal communication.
You see, listening does not require your whole brain, so you find your mind wandering. It's the great listener who keeps the focus on the speaker.
For me, hooking up is the last thing I dwell on, as it's not the point of a being out with someone to me. Getting to know the person is the reason for being with someone, not touching genitals.2