One of my closest guy friends, James, lives eighteen hours away, and we've known each other since we were kids (he's two years my senior). We would date if it weren't for such the huge distance, but, I don't want to and neither does he.
But the problem is, he goes out on dates and has sex, and I have no problem with it. But when I told him I had gotten back from a date, he flipped sh*t. He was so pissed, irate! He told me I was 'his' and I wasn't allowed to date anyone, which made me angry.
So, guys, what does this mean? Does it mean he likes me? Or he doesn't, because if he thinks its okay for him to date other people, I have a feeling I like him more then he likes me.
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'let you' I think you mean he gets mad when you date even tho he dates. he can not allow or disallow you, so get out of that mind set.
tell him, if he wants to be exclusive then he would have to discuss that with you rationally. & ultimately it would mean that neither you nor he dates or has sex with anyone else.
be sure to use mutual language. not you or i. because he's clearly a control freak & a hypocrite. & he has to understand if you guys are together you are together, its between the two of u, not one having decision making power over the other. & by the way you asked the question.. I'm not sure you realize that yourself.0