I am a female who likes my best friend that is a female. She has been a lesbian for like 10 years, and she is the first and only female that I have ever liked. She knows that I have feelings for her. Any who, the other day our other close friends were over my house, and she was flirting with them, and even kissed one of them. When I tried kissing her, (she froze up) with her fingertips touching her lips and she said, "no. I can't do it" your my friend". "I feel different towards you, compared to them". She also said, I talk to you everyday, and I barely talk to them". Now, to let you know, it has nothing to do with my appearance, because I am known to be a very attractive woman. (just to let you know too, when I used to stay the night at her house, she used to hold me when we were asleep, but she said that she only did that because I was comfortable). But if you tried kissing one of your friends, and they froze up, and said that they couldn't do it, what would you think? She didn't have an attitude or anything. Someone please tell me does it seem like it is more than because we are best friends?
Freezing up with someone tries to kiss you.
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wow, this is tough- but I believe that she is trying to repect your friendship, really. Being friends with someone for so long could definitley be something that one would not to wreck. And maybe she is confused by your actions. If you have never been with a woman before and now have chose that you are interested in her. I don't think you should be offended, maybe dissapointed and a little upset. as it always hurts a little when someone doesn't like you back as much as you like them. What has your friendship been like since this happened?0
no its just that she doesn't like you that way she likes you or maybe even loves you as a friend that's all wait a while and see what happens waiting never hurt any one or anything0
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