well my boyfriend broke up with me over 2 wks ago now because he's confused how he can love me so much but have problems with me. this is his longest relationship at 1.5 years and just entered the comfortable phase. I understand he's confused BUT within 2 weeks he's since joined a dating site and talking to girls...i confronted him with this and he said he's doing it Because he's bored, confused and trying to test himself and only talking to them with no view to meet anyone. even though we've broken up because I know thing scould potentionally get better between us I can't help but feel like he's cheating.
He broke up because he's confused but he is on dating sites as a test?
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It sounds like the break up was all on his terms and had nothing to do with how you felt. Now, many break ups occur because one person did something unacceptable to the other, but usually both people see it coming.
In your case, you clearly did not, and because of that don't feel like the relationship is over.
So you are going to continue feeling this way until you find a way to face the fact that you are broken up. Believe it or not, there is a positive here, in that since you don't have a full concept about why he broke up, and that it was a total surprise, you can define for yourself why YOU don't want to be with him anymore.
That may seem easier said than done, which is understandable, however the fact remains that you are broken up, and in order to re-visit the relationship, both of you have to agree to it. You can't control him, you can only control you so start to review the relationship as to what errors he made, and what lies he told, and what qualities he displayed that you know you do not want in a person.
When you begin to analyze your time with him from this perspective, it will help put some logic into why you are broken up, so you can begin to move forward.0
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