My friend Emily always tells me that I need to get my first kiss and find a boyfriend. Then, my mom brought up first kisses the other day and said I will be so nervous when it happens. I don't think I will because kissing sounds easy. I've thought about getting my best friend Jaryn to kiss me so I can just get it over with. I don't think he would mind because he had a crush on me when we first met.
Seriously, what is the big deal?
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I think it's all perspective and the attitude you take into it. My first kiss was completely unexpected and happened completely organically. Although in hindsight, I see what his intention was all along, but when I first began seeing my now ex-boyfriend, I thought he just wanted to hang out with me as friends and didn't think he was in it for anything else. When he kissed me, I just didn't see it coming, and I found it to be quite pleasurable despite not actually realizing what was going on or what exactly to do. I just let it happen, and it didn't actually dawn on me what was happening until it was over. For that reason, I treasure my first kiss. I didn't fuss over it, I didn't prepare myself for it, I didn't listen to what others had to say about their first kiss and get hyped up for it. It just happened.
Too bad the guy ended up being a total a**hole! :p1