Do girls like texts from men?

Question for the girls. Girls if a guy don't text you everyday does it bother you?also if you send a guy a text and he don't reply back for hours does it bug you? how often do you girls want to hear from guys?


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  • YES, I like when a guy texts me.it shows he is thinking about me.or needs me as a friend. So, no its doesn't bother me. It bugs the shit out of me when a guy and I are having a conversation and in the middle of it he doesn't response back. then tries to restart the converstaion an hour later. How freaking hard is it to say.hey I'm busy right now I'll txt ya later.?

    If we like you. we want to hear from you as much as possible it shows us you are interested. If its just a friend thing a few times a week so we know your okay

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    • Agree!!

    • Same question, are you the same with regards to guy texting you 1st? I'm just so curious on womens way of thinking lol

    • I usually text them first...then the next day I wait for him to text me..that way both are making the effort to contact each other..not just on one side

What Girls Said 19

  • It's a little different with my fiance and I since we are living together and engaged. We both work during the days so when one texts the other responds as soon as we get it. Sometimes I'm slammed or I just don't see the text and it takes me an hour to respond. Same goes for him. Even now I still appreciate getting "I love you" texts every now and again. Sometimes he texts me first and sometimes I text him first.

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  • no do not text every min of the day. no it doesn't bother some females to not recieve a text everyday. now if you don't respond to a text that was a question, the female is going to be a little bugged that you didn't respind, but not too much. I like to hear from guys occasionally, meaning a couple of times throughout the week. don't overdue it. and have somthing to talk aout. don't try to pry too much.

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  • I don't want a guy to text me everyday because then we're probably going to run out what to say to each other. Now if he texts me three or four times a week then I'm all set and happy. That just me thought. If we start texting and it takes two or three hours to reply to me then I'm going to assume that he doesn't want to talk to me. If I'm dating a guy.I don't mind getting a text from him everyday telling me that he misses and loves me.

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  • It annoys the crap out of me personally. I mean, don't text me every other minute or anything, but I hate it when a guy texts me something and I write back and he doesn't say anything. Or I write him, and he writes back, and then when I write back he doesn't say anything. Like they just disappear. I don't mind if a guy doesn't text me back for a few hours or whatever, but its annoying when they don't text you back at all. Then I'm like "Uh, did you see my question?" And they're like "I don't remember" or something. Lol!

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  • Texting should be fun.but not used or substituted for a relationship! In todays world, we all are busy, and a quick hello is nice to let someone know your thinking about them On the other hand, I do tend to think if they were really that interested in talking to you, they would call! Texting is a cowards way of flirting.yet at the same time, it can be fun. Conversations shouldn't ever be done via text.only short happys!

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    • Texting these days is a part of life. Yes a personal chat is the best thing, followed by a phone conversation. However a lot of people feel they can express a lot by means of texts. As an example, when your at work and you cannot nip out of the office, you can send a quick text to someone you like. When a girl texts me saying she is thinking of me it really makes my day. I think saying texting is a cowards way of flirting is kinda harsh!

    • Wasn't meant to be harsh but it is reality! Texting someone should be short and sweet! And yes we all busy...its a way of life but should it take the place of a phone call? I don't think so! People say things in text that they would never say in person, hence the cowards way of flirting!

  • Yes I do like, however its not good to smother someone with too many texts and constant back and forth texts all day that just gets boring and annoying if you are at work and or busy. But a Hi how are you or how was that "event" you went too is great, shows your interested. Nothing worse that blokes that just go AWOL for weeks on end then drop in a text basically says I was busy now I am bored so I am texting you but I am not really that bothered.

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  • I <3 it when I get texts from guys... epically sweet ones. AWWW.. .its so cute. I <3 it when the guy I'm dating sends me a text. I read it over like 3 times b4 I text back.. he sends me sometimes sweet poems and love lines from movies over the cell phone. Its just so cute

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  • i love when a guy texts just to see how my days going or how school or work was. it just lets me know that for that one second, I crossed his mind. one thing that really annoys me is when he says something, I reply, and then 2 hours later, I get a response back. that's a bit rediculous. I like hearing from a guy everyday, just knowing that he's thinking of me makes me feel special.

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  • If I like the guy. of course! I would love to get messages from him every minute of the day.

    Yes, it bothers me when I don't hear from him, I get to think that he lost interest or has found someone else.

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    • Ok but do you text the guy you like 1st or do you expect a text from him 1st?

    • Sometimes I do... but most of the time I would rather wait for him to text first.

    • I usually text them first...then the next day I wait for him to text me..that way both are making the effort to contact each other..not just on one side

  • Oh yea. texting is fun and it always make my day a little better. expecially if its a funny one. texting never gets boring at least for me anyways. goodluck

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  • We love to get texts from guys we are dating. Everday would be great, but I'll settle for every other day. If I send you a text and you don't respond for hours, yes it would bug me a lot. Wouldn't it bug you if a girl did that to you?

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  • i love to hear from guys. if I like a guy id want him to text me whenever he was thinking of me or whenever he wanted to talk. it would bother me if me and the guy were close and they didn't respond for hours.

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  • i find it soooo annoying when people don't text back.

    especailly if its a guy.

    it depends mainly on your relationship with who your texting.

    if its a love interest then yeah, its so annoying when boys text back, you have no idea what goes through our minds!

    x

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  • texts are cute [=

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  • yesss..love text...i would think he would be ignoring me if hrs pass hmmm that would suck.

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  • I love when my boyfriend texts me. I think texts keep our relationship hot when we're busy. Saying something sweet reminds me that he loves me.

    Saying something funny reminds me of why I first started liking him.

    A random, "what are ya up to" reminds me that he's thinking of me.

    And something quick and sexy reminds me of what we'll do at night when we see each other. ;)

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  • Girls like getting texts, because in this age and time people are usually out and about and doing stuff. They may not be at their computer, or it may be inconvenient to call, so a text lets a girl know that the guy is thinking of her at random times of the day.

    That said, I think it's bad for girls to take receiving texts from their guy for granted and to be upset when they don't text. People show their love in different ways and as long as he is showing the girl that he is making effort for their relationship, girls shouldn't get so moody.

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  • Personally, I would like to hear from the guy I like everyday. So, yeah it bothers me a bit when a guy don't text me everyday (but every other day is fine with me too maybe he's busy right?). Also, it bugs me when he doesn't reply to my text for hours because I feel he does not validate me or think talking to me is important.

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  • i don't have to hear from him everyday, that could get really annoying, but it does bother me if he doesn't respond to me for hours. it makes me wonder what he's up to and why he doesn't want me to know about it. yes I am the suspicious type, don't lie and say you don't wonder the same thing sometimes.

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    • I think we all feel an element of suspicion when we don't get a text back for hours. It annoys me but if I try a non suspicious look at things, sometimes I get a text and I cannot reply because I'm the middle of something, I don't look at my phone and only get a chance to reply later. It so annoys me when a girl doesn bother replying back full stop!

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