Assuming they were perfect for you otherwise and you had a great relationship, would you break up with them just because of this? Or would just being with them be more important?
I think this is kind of a tough one. I finally found my dream guy and we get along great. But he never wants to get married. And just like most other women, I've dreamed of the day I'd get married since I was a little girl. I've always had my heart set on it, but now that I've found a guy I could actually picture myself spending the rest of my life with, he doesn't want to get married.
I wouldn't break up with him over it (at least that's how I feel at this point). The point of getting married to me is to know that I will spend the rest of my life with that one special guy. So breaking up with that special guy because he doesn't want to get married would seem to defeat the purpose. But it will always feel very disappointing. Like our relationship is incomplete...
What would you do in this situation?
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Considering I don't care that much about marriage, no. But even if I did no. If I really love them, they really love me, and we're loyal to each other and never would hurt each other or leave each other then whatever. Marriage is supposed to be that anyways. Just because it isn't labeled wouldn't mean it isn't still just as special.1
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