How can your girlfriend/or the girl your dating say this little phrase with out you freakin out and acutally LISTEN to what we have to say and be adults about the issue at hand? any tips or advice on how a girl can get you to sit down and not zone out? or be defensive?
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well first off don't say "we need to talk" that's kind of intimidating lol. I felt a sickening feeling in my lower belly just by reading the title :D. but what you want to do is start the conversation as flirty or a regular convo that contains laughing (in person not over the phone). then say "hey can I ask you something?" because they may think that its a new conversation starter and will listen to what you have to say.0