My ex and I have been broken up about 2 months now. It wasn't an easy breakup, and there were a lot of tears and anger. We have tried to somewhat be friends. He will text me occasionally, but after a few text he just quits replying. And the little we do talk its the same conversation every time. It is basically what am I doing and who am I with, then he drops off of the radar. THis behavior is really confusing, and I'm not sure what it means and what I am supposed to do about it? Guys, I could really use some insight on this.
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Ignore it! if you're trying to get him back and regret the break up, the best thing to do is move on with your life and completely ignore these occasional texts that don't really have a purpose. men like the chase and want things they can't have - if you respond, he feels he still has some sort of importance in your life - that you're still "his" and that kills the chase. you can't engage him. he has to realize you are gone, and have moved on. maybe he'll come begging back. but I don't get the sense that's what is happening here... if you are not interested in getting back together, then there is no reason to respond - it seems to be holding you back, emotionally...enough to post here about it. I dated a guy once and when we stopped seeing each other, he would always text me whenever he got into a huge fight with his girlfriend or when he broke up to make sure I was still there for him...to pump his ego up. it didn't mean anything. imo many men only realize what they had and what it means to them when it dawns on them that they have lost it.0