I just began dating this great guy online (Joe). He is everything that I have been looking for in a guy. He is smart, mature, kind, witty, and just a real gentleman. We went out on our first date last Friday and I thought that we really hit it off. We laughed a lot, held hands while walking down main streets and we talked a lot about our careers and family.
I get butterflies just thinking of him. He called me the next night and said that he would like to go out again this weekend but will call me to confirm a day. But I still have not heard from him yet and tomorrow is Friday.
I also just got asked out by another guy (Chris) from school who seems to have a big crush on me and is a pretty sweet guy himself. I took Chris up on a date this Saturday after he boldly asked me out after class.
I really like Joe but I do not want to put all my eggs in one basket by committing my weekends to him. Should I tell him that another guy asked me out on Saturday if he finally gets around to calling me? Or would that sound like I am playing games if I start telling him about other guys that asked me out? Do guys feel competitive when another guy is brought up, even after a single date, or doe he deserve to know the truth that I am keeping my options open?
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hey both of you are just dating so no harm done. I think if you don't tell him you're keeping your options open by the third date then it might lead to trouble, but for now you don't have to throw it in his face. Just don't sleep with both of them, that's just not nice. Aside from that you might want to call him on Friday and see if he's still down with getting together or if something's come up.1