So I've been emailing this guy I met on a dating site. Anyways,we were thinking of meeting tonight-or sometime real soon. He asks what I'd like to do,so I respond with,"how about dinner? That way we can talk and can get to know each other."
No response from him yet he's been online. I. don't. get. him.
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Don't worry about it too much. Give it time and see if he gets back to you. Chances are he is also in contact with one or more other women. It doesn't mean he's a player- the online dating thing is just like that. I've done the same thing- I have been interested in a woman, but have also been in touch with a couple other women at the same time. I don't want to ignore her attention, but I don't want to have too much going on at once either.
But if I can't commit to meeting someone, I will explain that although I am interested, I simply have too much going on at the time. I make it clear that I don't expect them to wait around for me to make up my mind, but that if my situation changes, I would like to get back in touch. They are usually OK with that, and appreciate the honesty.