i am a young woman in high school I have a really good body and I always think of my face as ok..but I've seen conversations between guys and they call me ugly all the time. all I can do is cry cause I can't change anything I don't know what to do
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When I was growing up boys were so mean to me. In elementary school I specifically remember one boy saying, "Do you even realize how ugly you are?"
I remember I just accepted I was ugly at that point.
Then when I was in high school I would hear mixed things...some boys seemed to really like me and thought I was pretty and then there were ugly, insecure boys who bullied me and told me how I was fat, ugly, stupid, and flat chested.
For some reason, it's so much easier to accept the negative things said about us. I probably got 50 compliments for every hurtful thing ever said to me, but I never remember the compliments...just the mean things.
Regardless, it's funny to see how life works out. The boys who picked on me are dead-beats and all overweight/unattractive, but I blossomed. I still feel insecure about things and there's not a day that goes by that I don't think about what they said to me, but at least once a day now someone will tell me I'm beautiful and I'm working on accepting those comments as truths.
Basically, don't worry about what the mean people say because 100% of the time...those type of comments are made by insecure, sad people. Work on believing and embracing the truth that YOU ARE beautiful and most of all...don't let anyone steal your happiness. They are not deserving of your time, or energy, and definitely not worth depriving your happiness.
PS ...Karma will get them eventually = )1