It's your first date would you rather let him pick where to go or have him offer to let you pick where the date will be.
Ladies, what would you rather?
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-- If he calls and asks me out, I don't want to be presumptuous and pick a place or activity that might be out of his price range (in case he wants to insist on paying). I ask him where he was planning to go, what he feels like doing, etc.
-- If I call, I pick the place, but still ask if it's convenience for him to meet me there, if he feels like trying something else, etc. so he doesn't feel like he's being forced into something. (I also have to pick a reasonable place because more often than not guys still try to insist on paying at least half the bill in this scenario, and I don't want them to feel overwhelmed at any point in our date. The goal is to enjoy one another's company...0