Ok so our school does a trip to France for the French students which my boyfriend is going on and normally I wouldn't mind it but none of our guy friends are going on it (and neither am I) so he'll be hanging out with a bunch of girls every day for nine days. Now I trust him completely and most of the girls he'll be hanging out with are good friends who I know would never try anything (and who are in serious relationships themselves) but there are some who I don't know well and some who I really just don't trust all that much...I'm not going to tell him I can't go cause he's been planning it for years (before I knew him) and I'd feel awful if he didn't go so I guess I'm just looking for advice and maybe a way to feel better. So any comments especially from guys or girls with similar experiences would be greatly appreciated.
My boyfriend is gonna hang with a bunch of girls for 9 days!!!!
What Guys Said 2
If it's just nine days, nothing is going to happen. He'll spend time with them; there might even be flirting, but it will be harmless. If he is a good and honest person, then nothing will happen. There's no point in stressing out about it; if he is going to cheat, there's nothing you can do about it until he comes back, which is to dump his ass. Until then, there's nothing to worry about.1
I went on one of these school france trips, and if it was anything like ours, then there are some thing you should know. First of all, a trip to a foreign country is a wonderful thing, and it shouldn't be done alone. He will become pretty good buddies (if he isn't already) with someone going. You said all girls right? We also got a ton of free time, and if these girls are anything like my "girlfriends" then you shouldn't worry. France is a beautiful place, but girls will be girls, and shopping will occupy all of their free time. You have nothing to worry about. The worst that will happen is he spends 9 days shopping with girls. He will miss you, and have a great story to share with you when he gets back1
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