I tried setting a date up with a girl over the phone. I called and received her voice mail. I left a short message saying my name and to call me when she got it. A few hours later she responds in a text saying how she "was sorry she missed my call!" and that she was at a soccer game and now waiting on her brother. She then proceeded to ask me what I was up to.
Why not just call back?
So I wasn't about to play texting games. I don't do that anymore, it's just a waste of time. I sent her a text that said: "call me in 10 minutes. I'm in the middle of something right at this sec". I did it to put the pressure on her a little bit. I'm not about to ask for a date over text. I want to hear her. And so, I didn't hear from her for the rest of the night.
Do you think perhaps she just is more comfortable texting? She has done this one other time as well. The first time I called her and left a message though she called back and we chatted. I'm about to cut contact if she doesn't have the interest enough to pick up the phone.
She really has put me in a weird position. I'd like to take her out but I seriously don't want to sacrifice my entire pride in the process.
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Okay she might not be comfortable talking on the phone, but up until a couple years ago, texting wasn't really popular or used for anything. So she should just "woman up" and talk to you on the phone since it gets easier every time you do it. Just don't make it a 45 minute conversation when she's still uncomfortable with it. She SHOULD answer her phone, that's just rude to ignore the call and then just text back...a couple of my friends do that and I HATE it and I feel like I'm not even worth their time. So I just don't call them or text them anymore and if she doesn't want to talk to you over the phone, don't talk to her.
Secondly, I think that is awesome of you that you actually called the girl. There are some guys I know who will ask a girl out over texting or whatever and its annoying, so good for you :)0