Can being slightly less available be a plus?

This guy and I have been talking/hanging out for the past month or so, we are more than friends but whether or not we will ever have a relationship is a mystery to me, that doesn't bother me though.

However lately it seems like he's become less interested but I'm hooked, I'm afraid I might have bored him with texts and always being available to hang out..

I'm not looking to play games or anything with him, but I'm just wondering, would saying no more often and communicating less help me out, even just a little, at this point?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • No. If you suddenly went cold, I'd assume you lost interest and not bother pursuing it any further. Bombarding him with fewer texts would probably be okay, but I wouldn't take it any farther than that.

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What Guys Said 4

  • No I don't think so. I'd get frustrated and eventually lose interest if I don't think I have a chance with the girl. If she seems unavailable I don't know how that can ever help her when we are looking to date who is available.

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  • not really

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  • Me personally, why don't you just go ahead an ask him out?

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  • It's never been a 'plus' for me.

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What Girls Said 1

  • yes, back off a little bit and let him chase you and miss you

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